Do you think that there is so such thing as healthy relationships today between couples?

All you hear about in Hollywood are all the cheating and broken marriages…also in normal lives of people…Do you think there is such a thing as a monogamous relationship today?

Among emotionally healthy people? Yes absolutely. However to throw out a few ideas on that subject that can lead to all those bad stories.. Just to outline a few..relationships cannot be placed on autopilot for years(or in hollywood..months) at a time, They require knowing your partner and seeking out the things that make them happy, or both of you together, (they should do the same for you) To do that requires forming good habits with them,do that right in the beginning and its alot easier than trying after youve been together a long time, and have drifted apart. Cheating is also a classic dependant personality maneuver once the relationship feeling is sucked dry they start cheating to get to their next relationship fix, leaving the other party mystified. Thats where the old adage “its not you its me” would be true of the cheating party. There is never a good enough reason for cheating. If one has emotional trouble,get help, or break up before it happens. Also Love is also a choice not just a happy, sexy feeling, Sometimes the person you are with isnt very lovable in hard times, so thats where being each others best friend comes in. (note “minus other parties in the mix”) fidelity is the foundation. The truly balanced love is the kind that will come out of bad times stronger and “in love” again without anyone in the shadows…sorry for the long note : )

Healthy Teen Relationships